Caught on camera: naked love rival flees furious husband
A naked man who climbed out of a window and hid on the ledge to escape his lover's furious husband has been caught on camera.
Sun Meng has been given the cold shoulder by his community after the extraordinary picture of him cowering naked outside the flat were posted on the internet.
The terrified 25-year-old fled from the balcony window when he was caught in bed with the man's wife at the married couple's flat in Chengdu, central China.
Photographs of the angry showdown, taken by a startled neighbour, were uploaded to a local community website.
They show Sun perched on the first floor ledge while his lover is confronted by her unnamed husband inside.
"My family is ashamed and none of my own neighbours will talk to me any more," said Sun.
"I know what I did was wrong but I was afraid he would kill me.
"People are even laughing at how I look naked – but I have to point out it was a very cold day," he added.
Chengdu, capital of the Sichuan province in south-western China, has a population of about 11 million.
In 2003, the Chinese government relaxed its traditional hold over the private lives of its subjects by allowing them to marry without the permission of their bosses.
The government published three lengthy documents dealing with marriage laws and population control.
Nov 8, 2009
Naked love rival flees furious Husband
~Brother - Sister Sms ~
* Sisters is probably the most competitive relationship within the family, but once sisters are grown, it becomes the strongest relationship
* You were always my best friend,
looking out for me, making sure
the path I traveled on was smooth.
Even if I searched the world over,
there cannot be a better brother than you.
* “You are the person who holds me in my bad times, you are the person who dances with me in my happiness. I can't recall even a single day when you were absent from my life. I really love you.” Read More......
Oct 20, 2009
The Ultimate Raw Fish
It has a big, bulbous headbeady black eyesand eight squirming tentacles. It's the octopus. Many would call it ugly and disgusting. The one thing they wouldn't call it is dinner. Read More......
Jessica Gil Ortiz’s Gymnastics Headplant Video
Sports... Colombian Gymnast Jessica Gil Ortiz literally bounces onto her head while finishing off a high-flying tumbling sequence.
Oct 19, 2009
Oct 11, 2009
Healthy Sex In Water
Give Love Get LoveSexy but safe
While having sex in water is slippery fun, you still have to practice safe sex, and unfortunately, if you plan on using a condom, know that water and condoms do not mix.
Not a lot of research has been done, but here is what we know: Hot water and chemicals (like chlorine) most likely affect a condom’s durability, so don’t count on the protection. The other problem is the increased chance of the condom slipping off. That is not only nerve-racking but also awkward for everyone involved. It’s a good plan to have some backup condoms at the ready.
Stay wet
You would think that with all the extra liquid, sex in water would create extra lubrication, but that isn’t the case. Water actually washes away the natural lubrication from a woman’s body, which can lead to some not-so-pleasurable sex.
Your best bet is to use a silicone lubricant, which is not water-soluble and will make penetration a lot more comfortable for both of you.
For more ways to get wet and wild with sex in water.
Ready for the deep end
Once you’ve settled the condom situation and got your hands on some lube, you’re set. So where can you go to indulge in a little aqua love?
In the pool: A public pool is out of the question, so stick close to home on this one. The problem with pool sex is the chlorinated water rushing in and out of your lady, which can cause damage and infection. A good alternative is oral sex. Have your girl sit on the deck of the pool or on the stairs while you stand in the water, or vice versa.
In the tub/shower: If your tub is small, you could have trouble in the missionary position, but the shower is a great place for standing-up sex. You get the pleasure of being wet, without the chance of too much water entering private areas. For safety purposes, invest in some anti-slip stickers for the floor. Once you get going, you don’t want your gal sliding all over the place. Having something to hold onto (a stable rack, or bar installed in the shower) wouldn’t be a bad idea either — this will provide support for from-behind action.
In open waters: Salt water isn’t exactly a vagina’s best friend. A good, old-fashioned hand job could be the best option. The worst part about lake or ocean sex is the sand factor. Somehow, even if you are extra careful, sand ends up lodged… places. Instead, start things off in the water, but then head to dry land. Have a big blanket on the beach where you can head off to when it’s time to do the deed. You should be a fairly decent swimmer if you fool around in a lake or the ocean. Make sure you both have footing in reach and that the waves and undertow aren’t too strong. And be aware: sex is illegal in public places, so this might be a good time to keep your eyes open during the deed.
Real-life wet dreams
If after reading this article you decide that water sex is too much of a hassle, consider water foreplay instead. Perhaps a nu-de soak in the hot tub, a soapy scrub-down in the shower, or a late-night skinny-dip in a lake. After you’ve gotten wet and clean, you can head to a more comfortable place to get dirty.
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Aug 27, 2009
More the marrier: 1 man, 14 wives
MUMBAI: You may find it difficult to live a double life but a Mumbai man has been living 14 different lives - with 14 different wives - over thelast couple of years.
The police arrested the 40-year-old man, who used to be an engineer with Air India, on August 18 for marrying 14 women in the last two-and-a-half years. Police officials said Tushar Waghmare alias Tushar Bapat was sacked from his job soon after that.
Five official complaints have been registered so far against Waghmare. The nine other victims were not coming forward to lodge complaints as they feared for their reputation, officials said.
Investigators said Waghmare registered his profile with a marriage portal and mentioned that he had divorced his wife in 2006. He mentioned on his profile that he was looking for working Brahmin women who could be divorcees or widows.
Officials said he ``took care'' of all 14 wives, including one from Nagar, though - in the end - it was they who looked after him after he had exhausted his monthly salary of Rs 70,000. Three of the women Waghmare married were architects or engineers, police officials said, and the others were homemakers.
Waghmare used to visit profiles of girls on marriage portals and would fix appointments with their parents at one of his rented apartments in Lokhandwala or Jogheshwari. ``None of the women or their parents ever thought of doing a background check on him as they would be impressed with his job profile,'' deputy commissioner of police R M Vhatkar told TOI.
Vhatkar said Waghmare would spend at least three consecutive days with each of his wives and then tell them that he had to travel to other states to attend official meetings; this way, he managed to spend time with all his 14 wives.
Senior inspector Vijay Raut said: ``Waghmare married the victims after showing a bogus divorce letter written on stamp paper that was signed and had a notary's stamp. We managed to get hold of five different marriage photographs of Waghmare.'' Interestingly, there are a couple of faces that are common to every one of the five pictures; one them would pretend to be Waghmare's father and the other would pose as his uncle.
Inspector Shivaji Phadtare said: ``Waghmare started marrying women one after the other since his first wife divorced him in 2006. Waghmare changed his surname to Bapat (a Brahmin surname) so that he could marry Brahmin girls.''
Waghmare was finally caught after he married a 29-year-old architect in Mulund on August 11; she was a divorcee and had a son, officials said, and added they were surprised by Waghmare's increasing audacity. He was living with one of his other wives when the architect's parents came to visit him at his Lokhandwala home and he just sent her to the market for a couple of hours.
However, three days after they returned from honeymoon in Lonavala, this last of wives told Waghmare that her employers had asked her to go to Delhi on an assignment. ``I was shocked when Waghmare replied that I could take my own time and could return whenever I wanted to. What shocked me even more was when he told me he would not mind at all if I had extramarital affairs. This prompted me to go to his Lokhandwala flat on August 16, when I met a 29-year-old woman who claimed that Waghmare married her in April 2009,'' the victim mentioned in her complaint.
Investigators said they had received a letter from Air India, saying they were conducting a departmental inquiry against Waghmare for sexually harassing AI women employees since 2006. He has been remanded in police custody till August 29.
Aug 14, 2009
Sex Workers under Flu Fear
Kiss miss for sex workers
Julia Roberts played a warm-hearted prostitute in the popular '90s hit Pretty Woman, who never kissed her client, as it implied emotional involvement.
In Mumbai, sex workers stay away from a tongue tangle for a smarter reason fear of contracting the H1N1 virus.
Said Meher (name changed), a sex worker in Kamathipura, "I do not know much about the virus, except that I may get sick if I kiss my client on the mouth.
So, I have been extremely careful about covering my face with my dupatta during sex, and of course, no kisses."
Sex workers we spoke to say they are almost as concerned about swine flu (they knew the name) as they are about AIDS.
"I never have sex without a condom, in fact most of us never indulge in unprotected sex.
We are trying to be as vigilant with this new illness, but not a single NGO has approached us with cautionary lessons," said Sabiha (name changed). "If we are provided with testing kits, we will feel safer," she added.
5,000 say no
Meanwhile, in Pune, around 5,000 sex workers in Budhwar Peth have turned away customers who look unwell.
In fact, over the last three days, most of them have serviced customers on the pre-condition that they as well as the customer, wear protective masks. Consequently, there has been a fall in customers.
"We are afraid of getting the flu, customer doesn't matter as much. Most of us are the sole-earning members in the family and I for one, cannot risk having sex now and endangering my life," said a sex worker.
Another woman added, "I have not had sex with any customer over the last three days. Even if I know him, I don't want to take the risk."
Social organisations in Pune, primarily spreading awareness about AIDS and the dangers of unprotected sex, have been educating sex workers about swine flu.
Tejaswi Sevekari, director of Saheli HIV AIDS Karyakarta Sangha, said, "We have provided masks and have told them to avoid customers who have symptoms.
It's a positive sign that they are aware, but refusing customers won't be possible for very long."
Dr Laxmi Mali of Vanchit Vikar, another organisation looking after sex workers, said, "We have told them to wear masks and ensure their customers do so too, keep surfaces clean and ensure that customers do not have flu symptoms."
Aug 13, 2009
Dev Patel and Freida Pinto fell in love
After months of denial, 'Slumdog Millionaire' couple Dev Patel and Freida Pinto finally made their romance public, when they stepped out as a couple during an out-door screening of their Oscar winning film here. Patel, and Freida Pinto introducing a showing of Slumdog Millionaire at the Film4 Summer Screen at Somerset House which is a major arts and cultural centre in the heart of London. on August 2, 2009 in London, England.
The 19-year-old NRI and the Mumbai native who had met and fell in love while shooting for the Danny Boyle film have never made a public appearance together after the awards season and fans were thrilled to see the two together, reported Daily Mail online. In photo: Dev Patel, and Freida Pinto introducing a showing of Slumdog Millionaire at the Film4 Summer Screen at Somerset House which is a major arts and cultural centre in the heart of London. on August 2, 2009 in London, England.
Pinto, 24, who was named in Vogue's 'Best Dressed' list looked elegant in a black dress and metallic accessories while Patel looked sharp in a Dolce and Gabbana grey blazer, jeans and white shirt. In photo: Dev Patel, and Freida Pinto introducing a showing of Slumdog Millionaire at the Film4 Summer Screen at Somerset House which is a major arts and cultural centre in the heart of London. on August 2, 2009 in London, England.
The couple have been coy about their burgeoning romance and Patel had grabbed headlines when he ran away from his lady love during a dinner date to avoid being photographed together. In photo: Dev Patel, and Freida Pinto introducing a showing of Slumdog Millionaire at the Film4 Summer Screen at Somerset House which is a major arts and cultural centre in the heart of London. on August 2, 2009 in London, England.
Rumours surrounding the pair have swirled since they were catapulted to fame with their debut film 'Slumdog Millionaire' which won 8 Oscars and 7 Golden Globes among multiple other awards. In photo: Dev Patel, and Freida Pinto introducing a showing of Slumdog Millionaire at the Film4 Summer Screen at Somerset House which is a major arts and cultural centre in the heart of London. on August 2, 2009 in London, England.
At first, they insisted they were 'just good friends' but the cover was quickly blown by co-star Anil Kapoor who revealed, 'When I meet them, I feel there is something happening.' Not long afterwards, Pinto's former fiance, Rohan Antao, blamed Patel for the breakdown of their relationship. In photo: Actors Dev Patel, Irrfan Khan, Freida Pinto, and Anil Kapoor pose with their award for Outstanding Cast in a Motion Picture for 'Slumdog Millionaire' in the press room at the 15th Annual Screen Actors Guild Awards held at the Shrine Auditorium on January 25, 2009 in Los Angeles, California.
Aug 12, 2009
LOVE POEM
I dreamed of a love
a love so true
and then from above
God sent you
When our eyes met
I turned away
Only to regret
That grateful day
I search in the dark
To find that key
That triggers the spark
You put in me
I want you to see
That my love is true
Even though we can't be
I still hold my true love for you.
source:Joesph scott mattingly
© By Bridget Prindle
Aug 11, 2009
Spiritual Sex
Spiritual Sex: Begin the Practice
It is true that our relationship with sexuality is complicated by everything that makes us human. We are all experts on our own experience, so in that regard, everyone who speaks for themselves is absolutely right. Since we are all influenced by culture and ours is particularly ambivalent about sex, much of our feelings about the subject get reflected in attitudes: the meaning we attach to sex. I know there are other models of sexuality and the one most prevalent in popular media is the Biological model. The attempt to reduce sex to physical and chemical components, a bit like plumbing systems, is perhaps a way to control the mystery of it all; but the mystery is what makes sex so interesting. As a colleague of mine, , to limit sexuality to biology makes it more like digestion than dancing. I choose dancing.
Let's start with the experience of sexual energy. You can try this exercise by yourself. It helps if you know how to do pelvic rocking. Lie down with your knees bent, feet about hip distance apart, and your low back flat on the floor (don't try this if you have back problems). As you rock your pelvis back with a slight arch, breathe in and as you tuck your pelvis, breathe out. Do this for just a few minutes and then lower your knees, straightening them to rest on the floor and continue breathing. Visualize energy moving up your spine with the in-breath and moving down the front of your body with the out breath.
When we rouse sexual energy, it is like a sleeping serpent come to life: the Kundalini. Sexuality is much more than a physical act; it is energy within our bodies. These are concepts taught in all of the esoteric traditions of sacred sexuality. How we choose to express sexuality depends on many variables and when you express this energy with a partner, the choices of expression expand exponentially. But when there is a deep connection with another, when you are truly present together, there is a creative blending of body and spirit, mind and heart. Here is where the practice of spiritual sex begins. Your heart must open, to yourself and to your partner.
Heart opening is energetic as well as psychological. You are creating a container to become conduits of loving energy. It requires partners to shift into loving the essence or the spirit of their partner, not the outer layers of everyday, ordinary life. To begin with learn to create sacred space together. Here's an exercise called Touching Hearts:
After creating a safe and beautiful setting, sit opposite your partner in chairs, on cushions, or on the floor. For a few moments you may choose to simply breathe deeply and make eye contact, or to say a few words of appreciation for your partner. Once you both feel completely relaxed, each of you will place your right hand on the other's heart, and then place your left hand over the partner's hand, closing your eyes. With relaxed breathing, focus on the warm feeling in your heart region. Imagine a warm sun, expanding to encompass your whole body and your partner's body, and the entire space around you. This will take a few moments. When you are ready, rest your hands in your lap, open your eyes and look into your partner's eyes. Repeat the following words: first one partner will say the first phrase and then the other repeats the same phrase, until all three have been spoken.
"May you be safe,"
"May you be happy,"
"May your heart be filled with joy."
After breathing deeply for a few moments, move into holding each other.
Both these exercises offer direct experiences: of sexual energy and of conscious loving. Rather than simply judging from the mind, I'd like you to try one or both and then share your experience in the comments. That's where we begin to explore the mystery together. I hope to hear from you.
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Aug 9, 2009
LOVE QUOTES...keep relation in touch..
* keep in touch with ? ? ? ? ?
1 stone is enough to break a glass .
1 sentence is enough to break a heart.
1 second is enough to fall in love .
1 sms is enough to keep relation in touch..
* Pain of missing sumone isn't their absence
but itz when u think of gud time u have shared
* you are the only one for me?
What I feel for you,is really true. You got to know,I need you so. When you are gone,I can't go on. Can't you see, that you are the only one for me?
* Love is blind but marriage is an eye-opener.
* Just to see your face
and to feel your warm embrace
would take away all that time has given.
And make this life of mine
worth living
again.
Aug 4, 2009
Rakska Bandhan SMS, Rakhi SMS
* After a girl is grown, her little brothers - now her protectors - seem like big brothers.
* Holi is colourful,
Deewali is lightful and brightful,
Rakhi has made our relationship POWERFUL…
* For a sister as sweet as you,
Sending you all my love,
and wishing that all your dreams come true!
”Happy Raksha Bandhan!”
* Brothers are like streetlights along the road, they don’t make distance any shorter but they light up the path and make the walk worthwhile.
* This msg is for the most wonderful
sisters of this world –badi and chhoti.
Thank u didi for always being there on my
side and for helping me in those infinite
ways which I cannot even remember…
